So amm i getting played out?

so i met this guy at the club and we started hooking up and then he took me out one day and paid for it. so i was thinking he likes me obviously if he could have easily just had me come over to hook up.. but we dont talk very much, and i feel like he's a player cuz he goes to the club like every week . a lot of my friends said maybe he likes me but thinks i dont like him? because im not the most flirty person ever.. and i saw him at the club like a week after he took me out and kinda blew him off? but he was dancing with a girl so obviously i wasnt gonna run up to him. we hungout tuesday and he was like "yeah whenever i saw you you were like **** you to me" so maybe im giving mixed signals.. ? i wanna like text him but i dont wanna be like all over him if he is a player.. gah. thoughts?